Stepping across the threshold

As you step into the Dominatrix abode, you cross a threshold between ordinary life and fantasy. Ideally, stressors of daily life are left at the door as you relinquish all control to Her.

When I prepare a room specifically for our session, I step into my role as a Dominatrix and set up the necessary equipment and visualize step by step what lies ahead and potential variations in the session’s content. This way, I am already in the scene and prepared to welcome you in.

Alter ego

The Dominatrix is a powerful force that safely puts you in your place with her attire and demeanor. As a submissive, your task is to obey and worship Her. She makes the rules and you follow them.

Other times, in addition to being under the Dominatrix control, the submissive takes on a whole other personality. Examples include during pet play, adult baby play, and sissy sessions.

This alter ego has its own clothes and behavior, such as in sissy play when the submissive might have acquired a secret wardrobe for his alternate persona. Preparation for this type of play can begin before the session with for example the submissive sissy wearing women’s lingerie underneath his suit during the workday before seeing the Dominatrix.

Chastity

Another secret alteration to a submissive's everyday life is being locked in chastity and giving the Dominatrix the key. Giving Her full control of your manhood can be surprisingly freeing. You no longer need to think about when your next release will be. It is all in Her hands.

We keep a secret to the outside world on both ends of our agreement. You keep the chastity device under your pants and I keep the key on my necklace.

Suitcase of Secrets

Whenever I do an outcall or go on tour, I carry a big bag of secrets with me. Paddles, floggers, crops, restraints, cuffs, tape, latex, leather, lingerie, boots, shoes, lube, strapons, condoms and more fill up a rather substantially sized bag or suitcase as I venture to my destination.

I was once stopped by security at an airport in Norway when they pulled a collar and metal leash out of my carry-on and held it up, showing it intentionally to all travelers behind me saying “what is this?” I looked at them with annoyance and answered “it is a collar and leash, it is pretty clear to me.” They carefully put it back in my suitcase and let me go.

I like keeping my secrets in the bag until I reach my destination. I am sure plenty of Uber drivers and hotel staff have pondered the size and weight of my luggage. I am carrying a whole experience in my suitcase, of course it is heavy as hell.

Freedom in Secrecy

Having a secret component of life can feel liberating. You know there is a space you can enter where you are completely free from the demands of the outside world.

What happens during the time you spend with a Dominatrix largely remains a secret whether you are open to people in your life about being into BDSM or not. A session gives both the submissive and the Dominatrix a well of memories to visit when a break from the mundane is desired.

Whether you are walking through an airport with a suitcase filled to the brim with BDSM gear, or wearing women’s lingerie underneath your suit at a work meeting, you carry a bit of your secret life with you. Just enough to add an extra spark to your eyes.

1. Complete Control 

Nothing excites me more than knowing you are fully at my mercy. 100% devoted to serving me. Your pain and pleasure lies in my hands and I thrive from making the most of it.

2. Cock and Ball Torture

I absolutely love playing with a subs cock and balls. Especially inflicting pain with my hands; squeezing your balls, and using my nails on the head of your cock. Ballbusting using my feet to kick your balls is another favourite.

3. Pegging

I love the change of power dynamics when I put on my strap-on and get ready to fuck. I enjoy fucking first timers as much as more experienced men. Sensual and slow or hard and fast, pegging makes me feel strong, excited and empowered.

4. Foot worship

A submissive fully devoted to my feet that takes his time to give me a proper foot massage and then kisses and licks every part of my feet. After this, I step on his face and make him fully immerse himself in my feet. 

5. Tease and Denial

I love using my sensuality and curves to make you crave for me. Then, perhaps I’ll play with you just a little, before teasing you with my feminine beauty, making you beg for more.

Are you curious if the world of BDSM is for you? Maybe you have looked at kink porn and felt surprisingly aroused. Perhaps walked by a sex shop with a window exhibition of latex and cuffs. Or more likely in today’s world, you have seen fifty shades of grey and desired to be Anastasia instead of Christian.

Personally, I feel honored to guide people into the vast domain of kink. I am super excited every time I get the opportunity to allow newbies to try things they have fantasized about in real life. 

At first, we have conversations on text to figure out what you would like to try and what is off limits. Then, when we meet in person, these are followed up by a detailed introduction and agreement between the two of us of what will be explored within a session. 

After exploring curiosity, content and limits, the real fun begins. Once you emerge from the shower in our agreed upon attire, I will have a session planned specifically for your needs and desires. I carefully start at a low level of impact and check in when felt necessary as I gradually increase intensity throughout our time together. 

If anything we try is not your cup of tea, I make sure you are ok to continue with something else or if you would like to pause and debrief about the activity. In a tempo suitable to us both, I guide you through pain and pleasure until we reach a climax and then hold space for you as you transition back to everyday consciousness. 

Once the session is over, we have a chat about how the various elements were to you. I encourage you to share from your experience and what you enjoyed and what might not have been as expected. I make sure you are in a good condition to leave, before sending you off with unparalleled memories and either a fully scratched itch or the beginning of a beautiful journey into the universe of kink.  

Have you fantasized about a powerful woman wearing a strap on? Perhaps played with the idea of her grabbing you by the hair and putting her cock deep inside your mouth before flipping you around and slowly sliding into your wet ass? 

If this sounds like you, you are not alone. Many men find great enjoyment from anal play and being fucked in the ass by a woman. 

But that’s how the gay play you might say. So what. Why should homosexual men experience more pleasure than you?

I understand it might not be the easiest thing to ask your partner to put something up your butthole. Especially if you have never shown interest in such before. Maybe you are simply curious and do not even know if you will enjoy it. This is where seeing a professional provides a safe way to explore your desires. 

A dominatrix will ease you into the anal experience at your level of comfort. She can guide you deeper into delight with her fingers and toys. More importantly perhaps, she also knows when to stop and when to move forward. Through experience, she has learned to handle anything that might happen during playtime. With Her, you are in a safe place to explore. 

Treat yourself to anal exploration. You might uncover new levels of pleasure and sensation. 

Christmas holds the potential for both stress and serenity. Allow me to make sure you get more of the latter. 

Whether the festive season at the end of the year is a time of great joy or despair to you, one thing is sure, you deserve a treat. A present sure to be a feast to all your senses is a booking with an escort.

A Christmas date can include traditional treats such as cookies and eggnog or be customized to fulfill your desires. Perhaps you'd like me to open the door naked wrapped in Christmas lights? 

It makes me incredibly happy to plan a date that will leave us ecstatic and with secret memories to cherish forever. 

Let us put our imaginations together and create the ultimate Christmas date.

Merry Christmas

A dinner date booking is one of the best ways to assure your time with a companion is a success.

Indulging in culinary delights in a dimly lit restaurant allows you to get to know each other and build up sexual tension in time for dessert.

A cheeky smile, gentle touch of hands and caressing each other's thighs under the table turns up the heat while you wait for the food. Once the meal arrives you can enjoy the taste and conversation inspiration. If you ever run short of things to talk about different ingredients, restaurants and dishes you enjoy is a safe bet.

If you are comfortable enough with each other, indulging in a sweet delight for desert could be the beginning of foreplay. Perhaps you could feed each other a spoonful of chocolate mousse followed by your first kiss?

Bon appetit!

Tension release

Are you in a high pressure job where you have to be switched on and ready to handle any challenge 24/7? Imagine being able to fully separate your mind and body from all responsibilities and hand over the reigns of your existence for a couple hours. Separating fully from stressors can bring forth a huge tension release and leave you feeling euphoric and ready to take on challenges with a clear mind.

An unfulfilled desire to be submissive

Have you fantasized about a powerful woman taking charge of your body and mind? Is it something you are unlikely to admit to desiring in your everyday life? This is where hiring a professional dominatrix is a great idea to let you explore an aspect of yourself you have not given space before in the right set and setting. She will guide you into the new world of submission and together you will uncover what aspects of submission are most suitable for you to unpack.

Expanded understanding of power dynamics

Being in a state of submission is very different from many peoples everyday reality. Putting yourself in such a position can give you valuable insights into what it is like to be under someone else’s control and influence. 

You are always in control and would like to experience giving up control

Are you the boss in your personal and professional life? Do people turn to you expecting you to always be in control? Do you always have every little aspect of your life planned out to the finest detail? Imagine not having to make any decisions and simply follow directions without knowing what will happen next. If you dare step into an experience so far from your ordinary day to day life, it can give you a great release of tension as previously mentioned and open your mind to see things from different perspectives. 

You are open minded and would like to try something new

If you are naturally open minded, adventurous and curious about different dimensions of sexuality, it can be a rewarding experience to dive into the world of BDSM guided by a professional. A session with a dominatrix will  let you discover something new to add to your sexual repertoire. It may let unpack another aspect of your sexuality which can open you up to a whole range of experiences previously unexplored. At the very least you will leave with exciting memories and another thing to cross off your bucket list.

Sexual energy, libido, lust, desire, passion, eroticism, a powerful force with many names. This inborn power enlivens and invigorates us. The stronger our passion is, the more it assists us in being vital and present with life. 

The strength of our libido can make us more creative and inspired. Flowing through life seems less challenged when we are infused with the energetic force of desire.

Both lack of, longing for, and experiences of playing in the realm of lust inspires great works of art. Paintings, poetry, movies, plays and music are full of words and imagery inspired by eroticism.

Sometimes, our sexual energy lacks an appropriate outlet, and the force gets bottled up inside. This may cause anger, aggression and dissatisfaction with life and sexuality.

This is where I come in, providing a safe space to get back in touch with your libido. When we are together, and even before we meet in the flesh, I encourage you to explore your sexuality. I invite you into my playground, where you are free to embrace all aspects of yourself. Trust me to ignite your passion, and send you back into the world infused with at least a little more lust for life.

There are hundreds of escort directories online, some local and other international. A segment of these are aimed at the lower end of the market, while others cater to the higher end of the spectrum. What they have in common is the need for sex workers signing up and clients choosing providers from their page over others.

What makes a directory successful? Factors include branding, design, user friendliness, layout of the page, SEO, and in my opinion people. The people behind the idea of the directory, the ones who put the page together and the people who run it on a daily basis creates the foundation. 

All of this does not mean much unless it can attract the right sex workers to put a profile on their page and also recommend the directory over others. Then comes the clients, who need to either know about the directory or find it easily when doing a search.

When I put my profile on an established directory, I consider its design, wanting it to be simple, classy and sexy and be able to reflect who I am as an escort. Then, I look at the sex workers on it, to see if they are in the same category as myself. After which, I see how the page performs on a Google search, if it is on Twitter, and any feedback that might have been given about it. Then, I’ll ask a worker friend and a client if they have heard about it and their opinion.

New directories seem to pop out of nowhere on a weekly basis these days, sending lengthy text messages and emails full of promises of benefits. When I choose to put a profile on a new directory, I look past messages promising the world from directories I have never heard of, to personal invitations from trustworthy people with industry experience. 

In a time where the world has changed to the unrecognizable within a couple of months, where established directories change for the worse and new ones for the better, who knows what page will be the most popular in the future. Therefore, it can be a good idea to go directory shopping and see if there are new ones that fit your needs more where you currently advertise. On one hand you might get a good laugh and know what to steer clear off and on the other hand find a new favorite and gain some inspiration.

Why on Earth is the midpoint of a pandemic a good time to see a sex worker? 

First, we are already extremely careful about hygiene and sanitization of our workspace. The pending threat of disease makes us even more cautious, so rest assured, you're most likely stepping into one of the last places a virus would survive.

Second, the public fear has made some clients cancel their bookings and others think twice about making one. As a result those who decide to see us will really make our day and be shown how much we value them as a client.

Third, in a time of gloom, you are much better suited to deal with whatever life throws at you when you're happy. That's where we come in. Sex and physical touch are directly related to happiness. Some may even go as far as saying sex is the key to happiness and good health. 

Now, I highly encourage you to visit your local sex worker, gain some valuable sanitization tips, share some laughs and protected intimacy and leave with a smile on your face. If anything, it should prepare you to more easily slide through what may become a time of even greater despair.

“How could they hire someone as incompetent as you for the sales position? I haven’t seen anyone as useless as you in years. Now, I can think of a couple ways for you to make up for that...” 

Welcome to the world of role play. My personal favourites include naughty secretary, inspecting landlady, stepsister, demanding boss, and pornstar at job interview. 

Stepping into a role adds another layer of excitement and permission to leave the mundane behind. 

I love assisting clients to act out their fantasies. Personally, I find acting thrilling and particularly enjoy the process of getting into character and the improvisation that follows. Whether it's acting out a script or acting an open role, it encourages a playfulness that invigorates our lives long after the play is over

My heart beat faster as I surrendered to his touch. I released all desire to resist as he put cuffs around my wrists and locked my arms together behind my back. I willingly let him take control over me, the untamable one.

A fresh awareness of body and breath arose as I was liberated from performing. He gently threw me down on the couch face down. His soft, yet firm hands caressed my butt before he spanked me once on each cheek. Is that all you got? The moment it slipped out of me, I both regretted saying such and felt an extreme excitement for what came next. He slapped my right buttcheek so hard it gave off a perfect spanking sound. The arousing pain stripped my mind from thoughts as my body became all sensation. 

I quickly snapped out of it as my perfectionist self came back to hold the reigns of my brain. How was it that this newbie gave off a better spanking sound on my ass than I do on others? Perhaps my booty just give off a good sound? Dammit, just as easy as I lost control, my mind was ready to take it back. I told my first dominant to release me, and that I had enough for the first time. Inside, I craved for more. 

The exhilaration I felt from releasing control infused me with new excitement for life and work. Now, I know what it’s like not to think or plan or hold space. Unaware of what will happen next. Aware only of sensations. Outside the mind, in the field of the body, where pleasure and pain become one. 

Are you frantically running around organising Christmas parties, keeping track of family festivities, buying presents, and taking care of everything and everyone but yourself?

Here’s a wild idea, take an hour or even two to gift yourself some pleasure. I promise you’ll forget some of the weight on your shoulders and leave with a smile on your face. A smile that will last through the rest of your day and potentially all the way until Christmas.

In busy times like these, we tend to think about everyone but ourselves. But, how can we really take care of anyone else when we haven’t tended to our own needs first?

This December, at my luxurious incall in Sydney CBD I am excited to be your Private Christmas Party.

If you desire a relaxed time to unwind, I offer a soothing massage to center you before some sensual delights.

Are you more in the mood for a real party, let’s open the champagne and turn up the music. If we get extra silly, I even have disco lights to turn up the mood, while we play a game of how many surfaces we can have fun on.

Let me be your treat this Christmas. You deserve some fun too!

Thank you for knowing what you want and having researched me before we meet. Your efforts will be rewarded with positivity, a genuine smile, and a fully prepared and sexually charged Scandinavian siren eagerly awaiting your visit. 

A man who knows what he wants and when he wants it excites me. When you contact me it makes me happy that you share when you would like to see me, your preferred service and duration, and if you want me to travel to you or visit me at my incall. 

I have a vast collection of lingerie and outfits and any requests made before our date will be accommodated as much as my wardrobe allows. I love dressing up for a lover and cannot wait to dress up (and down) for you.

Once we meet, I thank you for being on time, clean, having read my webpage, being kind, genuine, open-minded and non-judgmental. It makes me excited if you're as curious of who I am as a human being as I am with you. 

Dear New Client,

I cannot wait to meet you and create memories together 

Kisses,

Nina

I love my job. It's taken me over 10 years to finally dare become a sex worker, what I always wanted. Surely, I would be the last person to give up my beloved profession and lifestyle for a man?

Think again. Before being bewildered by a boyfriend and prospects of a "normal" life, I never doubted my choices in life. Then, I too got lured away by love. At least what I thought was love at the moment. While in my mind, love should be unconditional. In this case it was conditioned by me having to reluctantly agree to seeing my work as morally wrong.

The strong, independent woman I thought I was caved into conditioned love. I no longer felt good about working and took an indefinite break while struggling to adapt to a life of Netflix, chill and dog walks. 

To be loved I gave up my life. I lied and humoured my man and his limited view on sex work as amoral.

Personally, I find sex work beautiful. It allows for genuine connection, exploration of sexuality, and gives space for people to be free and exactly who they want to be, even if just for an hour. Every hour I worked I felt privileged to be a guide in the realm of sexuality. Then I turned around and gave it all up to fit into a box that was never fitted for me.

You may wonder where the story ends? Well, I realised that someone who can't love me for who I am will never accept me as an equal. I choose to take the good memories with me as I decide to be myself again, fully. No limitations and no shame. I am at a stage where my life is exactly what I designed it to be, doing what I love, being happy and free. No one can tell me that's the wrong place to be.

A woman's touch awakens dormant desires in me. The softness. The sensuality. The sensations of her hand stroking my skin. If simply her fingers makes me tingle from head to toe, her tongue must surely be pure bliss.

If I get excited only from thinking about a woman’s touch, then a man touched by not one, but two women at once must be close to nirvana. If I was a man, that would be my ultimate fantasy. Hey, writing about it makes me wonder if perhaps it might be mine too.

Seeing couples or adding another female to the mix in a booking has been some of my favourite bookings. Nothing compares to the delight of exploration and the many possible opportunities for simultaneously sharing and receiving pleasure.   

Combining the soft female with the more firm male is the perfect combination for someone who wants it all. Now, dear reader, please let me indulge in this delight again soon...

I'm on my way to a business dinner, I casually reply to the nosy Uber driver as I powder my nose with one hand and straighten the lacy panties under my pencil skirt with the other. Ah ok mam, he replies as he takes another extra long look at me in the mirror. 

Then, I remember that I'm in an Uber for Jack. I keep my fingers crossed he either thinks Jack is my boss or my name is Jacqueline. Either way, he better find my answers polite enough to maintain Jack's impeccable rating.

My heart beats faster and my attempt to casually straighten my thong ends up twisting it the wrong way and deeper into my butt crack. Dammit I say out loud as a hot flash comes over me and I say a quick prayer it won't leave my skin flushed or lady parts inconveniently moist.

Once we pull up at the Four Seasons, I attempt to politely thank the driver as I elegantly slide out of the Uber. Then, my inner super woman takes over and I immaculately straighten my panties, make my blouse and skirt appear appropriately business womanesque and lightly fluff up my loose curls. I walk with a balance of confidence and modesty over to the entrance as if there is no doubt I stay there. I glide in past reception casually discreet to avoid any attention as I head for the elevators.

A lovely date awaits. As I enter the elevator a grateful smile spreads all over my face knowing I'm about to do what I love.

I’m bartending and waitressing at a private party tonight so I can’t join. In one way, I am telling the truth. I will be pouring drinks. I am simply leaving out what I’ll serve for main course; me.

When friends and family ask about my work, I never lie completely, I just don’t tell the whole truth.

I’ve been bartending on and off for ten years. Occasionally, I still work at private parties, although I prefer pouring drinks in a much more intimate setting. In my life now, I create the best drinks naked or wearing sexy lingerie, and serve them to a lover or a couple of lovers.

Other times, I say I am a yoga teacher. I am a yoga teacher, I have 500 h of training behind me, have taught in three countries, and often end up using skills I acquired in a job. I owe my flexibility, mental clarity, breathing technique, and creative positioning of my body to yoga.

Am I really lying and living a double or even triple life when I am only leaving out sharing certain aspects of my life in conversation with certain people?

I am crazy about sex. It is one of my favorite human activities. Ever since my first orgasm at the age of eleven, I knew I found a method to match my madness.

Sex quickly became both an escape from and an intensification of life for me. Exploring my sexuality gave me space from the mundane activities I found unsatisfying and transported me to a realm of pleasure. Having sex with myself or a partner taught me so much about the way my body and mind works.

During sex, my senses are heightened and I live only right there in the moment. I exist for the experience of pleasure and the delights of physicality. I am all being, all feeling, all sensation, temporarily released from the cage of my thoughts.

The natural high of sex is incomparable to anything else. To me it is my meditation, my method of ecstacy, and my way of discovering deeper levels of myself. I find great satisfaction in taking people on pleasure journeys with me, where we leave our limitations and thoughts behind to simply be.