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Breaks and Break-ups

I love my job. It's taken me over 10 years to finally dare become a sex worker, what I always wanted. Surely, I would be the last person to give up my beloved profession and lifestyle for a man?

Think again. Before being bewildered by a boyfriend and prospects of a "normal" life, I never doubted my choices in life. Then, I too got lured away by love. At least what I thought was love at the moment. While in my mind, love should be unconditional. In this case it was conditioned by me having to reluctantly agree to seeing my work as morally wrong.

The strong, independent woman I thought I was caved into conditioned love. I no longer felt good about working and took an indefinite break while struggling to adapt to a life of Netflix, chill and dog walks. 

To be loved I gave up my life. I lied and humoured my man and his limited view on sex work as amoral.

Personally, I find sex work beautiful. It allows for genuine connection, exploration of sexuality, and gives space for people to be free and exactly who they want to be, even if just for an hour. Every hour I worked I felt privelged to be a guide in the realm of sexuality. Then I turned around and gave it all up to fit into a box that was never fitted for me.

You may wonder where the story ends? Well, I realized that someone who can't love me for who I am will never accept me as an equal. I choose to take the good memories with me as I decide to be myself again, fully. No limitations and no shame. I am at a stage where my life is exactly what I designed it to be, doing what I love, being happy and free. No one can tell me that's the wrong place to be.

Diverse Delight

I am a multi talented woman with a wide range of interests. The diversity and complexity that is me naturally transfers to my business as a sex worker.

In my business, I offer massage, domination, and escorting to men, women, and couples. Providing a variety of services does not mean I am less skilled in these, it reflects my essence as a multifaceted human being.

I enjoy diversity and find fulfilment and inspiration in a wide range of experiences. By being diverse, my work is never boring or a routine and I am genuinely excited by each new encounter.

I find pleasure in putting together each session by offering a unique approach to the client based on their constitution and desires. In addition to this, I of course leave room for spontaneity, because what is life without a sprinkle of spontaneity?

To add even more excitement to my offerings, I consider expanding to offer a switch service, where I alternate between being dominant and submissive. Why? To fulfill my own and clients cravings to explore the full spectrum of humanity and sexuality. By dancing all over the field, I feel more vibrantly alive and am able to transmit that aliveness to my clients.